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That First Meeting....

Do...

  • Be sensible - meet for a quick drink or coffee rather than commit yourself to a whole evening with someone who may not be your ideal partner.
  • Be positive about yourself - a bright, cheerful attitude is much more appealing than a negative one.
  • Treat others, as you would like to be treated yourself. Be polite if you decide you don't want to meet again. It is better to say 'I've had a nice time but feel we're not suited' rather than promise to ring and have no intention of doing so.
  • Be yourself - don't pretend to be something you're not.

Don't…

  • Talk endlessly about failed relationships - it can be off-putting!
  • Drink too much or constantly run yourself down
  • Take your children on your first date.
  • Visit anyone without being invited.
  • Feel pressurised into starting a physical relationship before you feel the time is right.